Systems and methods for obtaining information and approval to market to a certain person

ABSTRACT

A method and a corresponding system for obtaining information and approval to market to a certain person, include: storing in a database, by a platform server, at least an identifier; and sending an incentive to the certain person in response to receiving verification from a communication device of the certain person using the identifier and approval for receiving marketing from a merchant. The certain person can be the recipient of a gift or a card, or a customer receiving a self-bought package. The identifier can be a unique identifier such that the incentive can include a custom message or other personalization. The recipient of a gift or a card can send a “thank you” and/or a custom message to the respective gift giver or the card sender. The platform server does not share contact information between the giver and the recipient.

CROSS-REFERENCE TO RELATED APPLICATIONS

This application claims the benefit of U.S. Provisional PatentApplication No. 62/060,969, filed Oct. 7, 2014, and U.S. ProvisionalPatent Application No. 62/169,982, filed Jun. 2, 2015, the disclosuresof which are incorporated herein by reference.

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BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION

1. Field of the Invention

This invention relates to systems and methods for obtaining informationand approval to market to certain persons, including recipients of giftproducts, self-buy packages, greeting cards, thank you cards,invitations, and other stationary. The systems and methods may bereferred to herein as “Thank You Back” or “TYB,” or “Retentage,” or“Sound Affections” or “SA.”

2. Background Art

Merchants want to expand their customer list and desire help acquiringnew customers. Gift orders comprise 25% of consumer product sales.However, standard marketing to gift recipients includes box insertsoffering incentives to “sign up.” Such standard marketing has a very lowresponse rate.

Additionally, while it is possible to send greeting cards with packagespurchased on line, the implementation involves generic, pre-printedcards that are impersonal, or printing greeting cards at each shippingstation, which has a low rate of adoption.

BRIEF SUMMARY OF THE INVENTION

According to an aspect of the invention, a system for obtaininginformation and approval to market to a recipient of a gift includes adatabase and a platform server in communication with the database, theplatform server including a processor operably connected to memory, andinput/output devices. The processor executes software instructionsstored in the memory for causing the platform server to: store in thedatabase a unique identifier and order information including contactinformation of a giver and contact information of the recipient; andsend a thank you message to a gift giver communication device inresponse to receiving a request from a gift recipient communicationdevice, verification from the gift recipient communication device usingthe unique identifier, and approval from the gift recipientcommunication device for receiving marketing from a merchant.

In one implementation, the platform server associates a custom messageto the recipient with the unique identifier in response to receiving aselection from the gift giver communication device of an option tocreate the custom message, and delivers the custom message to the giftrecipient communication device in response to the verification.

In another implementation, the gift includes an incentive for therecipient to thank the giver, and wherein the platform server associatesthe incentive with the unique identifier, and releases and sends theincentive to the giver with the thank you message, so that release ofthe incentive is controlled by the recipient.

In yet another implementation, the platform server manages generation ofa physical thank you card with a custom message to be sent by mail tothe giver in response to a request from the gift recipient communicationdevice, or purchase and sending of a gift card by the recipient to thegiver in response to a request from the gift recipient communicationdevice.

Verification from the gift recipient communication device using theunique identifier may utilize a URL hosted by the platform server. Theunique identifier may be included on an internal packing slip of thegift, or on a shipping label of the gift.

According to another aspect of the invention, a method for obtaininginformation and approval to market to a recipient of a gift includes:storing in a database, by a platform server, a unique identifier, orderinformation, contact information of a giver, and contact information ofthe recipient; and sending, by the platform server, a thank you messageto a gift giver communication device in response to receiving a requestfrom a gift recipient communication device, verification from the giftrecipient communication device using the unique identifier, and approvalfrom the gift recipient communication device for receiving marketingfrom a merchant.

One implementation includes associating, by the platform server, acustom message to the recipient with the unique identifier in responseto receiving a selection from the gift giver communication device of anoption to create the custom message, and delivering the custom messageto the gift recipient communication device in response to theverification. The method may include associating, by the platformserver, the custom message with the unique identifier before shipment ofthe gift or during transit of the gift.

Another implementation includes sending, by the platform server, areassurance message to the gift recipient communication device thatcontact information of the recipient will not be shared with the giver,and receiving acceptance of terms of service from the gift recipientcommunication device before sending the thank you message.

Acceptance of the terms of service may include receiving from the giftrecipient communication device a sign on through social media orcreating a user name and password.

The method may include managing, by the platform server, generation of aphysical thank you card with a custom message to be sent by mail to thegiver in response to a request from the gift recipient communicationdevice, or purchase and sending of a gift card by the recipient to thegiver in response to a request from the gift recipient communicationdevice.

According to another aspect of the invention, a system for obtaininginformation and approval to market to a recipient of a card includes adatabase and a platform server in communication with the database, theplatform server including a processor operably connected to memory, andinput/output devices. The processor executes software instructionsstored in the memory for causing the platform server to: store in thedatabase a unique identifier, contact information of a card sender, anda custom message to a card recipient from a card sender communicationdevice; and send the custom message to a card recipient communicationdevice in response to receiving verification from the card recipientcommunication device using the unique identifier, and approval from thecard recipient communication device for receiving marketing from amerchant.

In one implementation, the platform server further sends a custom replyto the card sender communication device in response to receiving thecustom reply from the card recipient communication device. The card maybe an invitation, and the custom reply may be a reply to the invitation.In this case, the invitation may include questions, and the custom replymay include answers to the questions. Additionally, the platform servermay create a spreadsheet sortable by who is confirmed, who is notcoming, and who has not responded.

According to yet another aspect of the invention, a method for obtaininginformation and approval to market to a recipient of a card includes:storing in a database, by a platform server, a unique identifier,contact information of a card sender, and a custom message to a cardrecipient from a card sender communication device; and sending, by theplatform server, the custom message to a card recipient communicationdevice in response to receiving verification from the card recipientcommunication device using the unique identifier, and approval from thecard recipient communication device for receiving marketing from amerchant.

One implementation may further include sending, by the platform server,a reassurance message to the card recipient communication device thatcontact information of the card recipient will not be shared with thecard sender, and receiving acceptance of terms of service from the cardrecipient communication device before sending the custom message.Acceptance of the terms of service may then include receiving from thecard recipient communication device a sign on through social media orcreating a user name and password.

According to yet another aspect of the invention, a system for obtaininginformation and approval to market to a customer receiving a packageincludes a database and a platform server in communication with thedatabase, the platform server including a processor operably connectedto memory, and input/output devices. The processor executes softwareinstructions stored in the memory for causing the platform server to:store in the database an identifier and a link to a URL containing anincentive from a merchant; and send the link to a customer communicationdevice in response to receiving verification from the customercommunication device using the identifier, and approval from thecustomer communication device for receiving marketing from the merchant.The identifier may be a unique identifier, identification of thecustomer may be associated with the unique identifier in the database,and the incentive from the merchant may be personalized for thecustomer.

According to still a further aspect of the invention, a method forobtaining information and approval to market to a customer receiving apackage includes: storing in a database, by a platform server, anidentifier and a link to a URL containing an incentive from a merchant;and sending, by the platform server, the link to a customercommunication device in response to receiving verification from thecustomer communication device using the identifier, and approval fromthe customer communication device for receiving marketing from themerchant. The identifier may be a unique identifier and identificationof the customer may be associated with the unique identifier in thedatabase. The method may then further include personalizing theincentive from the merchant for the customer.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE DRAWINGS

FIG. 1 is a functional block diagram of an exemplary embodiment of asystem according to the invention.

FIG. 2 is a call flow diagram of an exemplary embodiment of a methodaccording to the invention.

FIG. 3 is a schematic representation of an exemplary shipping labelaccording to an embodiment of the invention.

FIG. 4 is a schematic representation of an exemplary packing slipaccording to an embodiment of the invention.

FIG. 5 is an exemplary screen shot of a screen that the recipient maysee on the gift recipient communication device upon contacting theplatform server.

FIG. 6 is an exemplary screen shot of a screen that the recipient maysee on the gift recipient communication device where the platform serveroffers to the recipient the options of sending by mail of a physicalthank you card or a gift.

FIG. 7 is a functional block diagram of another exemplary embodiment ofa system according to the invention.

FIG. 8 is a functional block diagram of another exemplary embodiment ofa system according to the invention.

FIG. 9 is a call flow diagram showing exemplary interaction between thevarious computing and communicating machines and entities of FIG. 8.

FIG. 10 is a functional block diagram of another exemplary embodiment ofa system according to the invention.

FIG. 11 is a call flow diagram showing exemplary interaction between thevarious computing and communicating machines and entities of FIG. 10.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF EXEMPLARY EMBODIMENTS OF THE INVENTION

The details of one or more embodiments of the presently-disclosedsubject matter are set forth in this document. Modifications toembodiments described herein, and other embodiments, will be evident tothose of ordinary skill in the art after a study of the informationprovided herein. The information provided herein, and particularly thespecific details of the described exemplary embodiments, is providedprimarily for clearness of understanding and no unnecessary limitationsare to be understood therefrom. In case of conflict, the specificationof this document, including definitions, will control.

While the terms used herein are believed to be well understood by one ofordinary skill in the art, definitions are set forth herein tofacilitate explanation of the presently-disclosed subject matter.

Unless defined otherwise, all technical and scientific terms used hereinhave the same meaning as commonly understood by one of ordinary skill inthe art to which the presently-disclosed subject matter belongs.Although any methods, devices, and materials similar or equivalent tothose described herein can be used in the practice or testing of thepresently-disclosed subject matter, representative methods, devices, andmaterials are now described.

Following long-standing patent law convention, the terms “a”, “an”, and“the” refer to “one or more” when used in this application, includingthe claims.

The term “processor” is used herein to describe one or moremicroprocessors, microcontrollers, central processing units, DigitalSignal Processors (DSPs), Field-Programmable Gate Arrays (FPGAs),Application-Specific Integrated Circuits (ASICs), or the like forexecuting instructions stored in memory.

The term “memory” is used herein to describe physical devices (computerreadable media) used to store programs (sequences of instructions) ordata (e.g. program state information) on a non-transient basis for usein a computer or other digital electronic device, including primarymemory used for the information in physical systems which are fast (i.e.RAM), and secondary memory, which are physical devices for program anddata storage which are slow to access but offer higher memory capacity.Traditional secondary memory includes tape, magnetic disks and opticaldiscs (CD-ROM and DVD-ROM). The term “memory” is often, but not always,associated with addressable semiconductor memory, i.e. integratedcircuits consisting of silicon-based transistors, and used for exampleas primary memory but also other purposes in computers and other digitalelectronic devices. Semiconductor memory includes both volatile andnon-volatile memory. Examples of non-volatile memory include flashmemory (sometimes used as secondary, sometimes primary computer memory)and ROM/PROM/EPROM/EEPROM memory. Examples of volatile memory includedynamic RAM memory, DRAM, and static RAM memory, SRAM.

The term “URL” stands for uniform resource locator, which is a specificcharacter string that constitutes a reference to a resource. Most webbrowsers display the URL of a web page above the page in an address bar.

The term “QR code” is abbreviated from Quick Response Code, and is thetrademark for a type of matrix barcode (or two-dimensional barcode)first designed for the automotive industry in Japan. A barcode is amachine-readable optical label that contains information about the itemto which it is attached.

The term “API” stands for application programming interface. An API is asoftware intermediary that makes it possible for application programs tointeract with each other and share data.

The term “communication device” means a personal computer, a tabletcomputer, a smart phone, or any other communication device capable ofcommunicating with a server through a communication network.

1. First Embodiment Thank You Back

FIG. 1 shows an exemplary embodiment of a system 10 for obtaininginformation and approval to market to a recipient 12 of a gift 16 (froma giver 14), the gift 16 including a unique identifier 18. The system 10includes a database 20, a platform server 22, a gift giver communicationdevice 24, and a gift recipient communication device 26. The system 10also includes a merchant communication device 28 and a delivery servicecommunication device 30.

A communication network 32 allows communication between the platformserver 22, the gift giver communication device 24, the gift recipientcommunication device 26, the merchant communication device 28, and thedelivery service communication device 30. The communication network 32may be the Internet, or any other appropriate network or networks forcommunicating information between the database 20, the platform server22, and the communication devices 24, 26, 28, 30 (i.e., computing andcommunicating machines and entities) discussed herein.

Also shown in FIG. 1 are a merchant 34 and a delivery service 36, aswell as a shipping label 38, a packing slip 40, and an incentiveidentifier 42. The merchant 34 and the delivery service 36 are entities,similar to the recipient 12 and the giver 14. The shipping label 38, thepacking slip 40, and incentive identifier 42 are associated with thegift 16.

The platform server 22 is in communication with the database 20. Theplatform server 22 includes at least one processor operably connected tomemory and input/output devices (not shown). The platform server 22executes software, as discussed below. The platform server 22 mayinclude more than one physical server and may also utilize “cloudhosting” or “managed hosting” (many servers hosted by third parties).

The gift giver communication device 24 is in communication with theplatform server 22 through the communication network 32. The gift givercommunication device 24 may be a personal computer, a tablet computer, asmart phone, or any other communication device capable of communicatingwith the platform server 22 through the communication network 32. Thecommunication network 32 may be the Internet, or any other appropriatenetwork or networks for communicating information between the computingand communicating machines discussed herein.

The gift recipient communication device 26 is in communication with theplatform server 22 through the communication network 32. The giftrecipient communication device 26 may also be a personal computer, atablet computer, a smart phone, or any other communication devicecapable of communicating with the platform server 22 through thecommunication network 32.

The merchant communication device 28 of this exemplary embodiment may bea computer server or the like that hosts a website through which themerchant 34 offers and sells products (i.e., an online merchant), or maybe a personal computer, a tablet computer, a smart phone, or any othercommunication device with which a brick-and-mortar retailer cancommunicate with the platform server 22 through the communicationnetwork 32. Examples of online merchants of this exemplary embodimentinclude retailers such as Amazon.com and 1-800-Flowers.

The delivery service communication device 30 of this exemplaryembodiment is computer server or the like hosting a website of thedelivery service 36. Examples of delivery services of this exemplaryembodiment include Federal Express and United Parcel Service (UPS). Thedelivery service communication device 30 is configured to deliverupdates (e.g., email messages) to the gift giver communication device 14showing when the gift 16 is shipped and when the gift 16 is delivered.These delivery service updates offer additional opportunities for thegiver 14 to record and assign a custom message (discussed below) to therecipient 12.

FIG. 2 is a chart showing exemplary interaction between the variouscomputing and communicating machines and entities described herein,which are labeled in accordance with the labels shown in FIG. 1 anddescribed in connection therewith.

In step S1, the giver 14 places an order with the merchant 34 for thegift 16 for the recipient 12. For example, the step could be the giver14 ordering flowers to be delivered to the recipient 12 using aflorist's web site or at a brick-and-mortar store. FIG. 2 shows thegiver 14 placing the gift order using the gift giver communicationdevice 24 in communication with the merchant communication device 28. Inthe case of brick-and-mortar store, the giver 14 can be handed one halfof a preprinted serialized ticket. The giver half contains info theyneed to log on with the gift giver communication device 24 and make acustom message for the recipient 12 (discussed below). The other half ofthe ticket is the recipient half. It is placed on the box for therecipient 12 to see and it carries the necessary log on info for therecipient 12 to log on with the recipient communication device 26. Asused herein, the gift giver communication device 24 could include acombination of communication devices (e.g., personal computer, a tabletcomputer, a smart phone, or any other communication device capable ofcommunicating with the platform server 22 through the communicationnetwork 32), such that a giver 14 could place an order using one device(e.g., a computer) and could make and assign a custom message (discussedbelow) to the recipient using another device (e.g., a smart phone).

In step S2, the gift giver 14 receives introduction information from themerchant 34 (or, as shown, the gift giver communication device 24receives introduction from the merchant communication device 28) afterthe order is placed. The gift giving situation is apparent when the nameand address in the billing fields are different than the name andaddress in the ship to fields, or in the case of brick-and-mortar store,by the merchant asking is this a gift. The introduction informationincludes information introducing the features and benefits ofparticipating in the program (i.e., the system and method forcommunicating a “thank you” message from a recipient to a giver of agift), including the ability to send a custom message to the recipient12, as described in more detail below. The introduction information canbe received by the gift giver 14 during the gift order process.Alternately, the introduction information can be received by the giftgiver 14 in an order confirmation email. In either event, theintroduction information includes reassurance that the contactinformation of the giver 14 will not be shared with the recipient 12.The gift giver 14 also receives a unique URL, a unique code/phonenumber, or a non-unique URL or non-unique code/phone number that can beused with an order number, a package number (i.e. tracking number) on ashipping label, or a number generated by the platform server 22, thatthe gift giver 14 can use to access the platform server 22 to create acustom message (discussed below). In the case of a unique URL, suchunique URLs can be prepackaged in bulk before a busy holiday period andsent to the merchant communication device 28 in advance. The merchantcommunication device 28 can then provide the unique URL to the giver 14during the transaction without waiting for the URL to be created, andthe order information can later be sent by the merchant communicationdevice 28 to the platform server 22 via the API of the platform server(discussed below).

In step S3, the merchant communication device 28 and the platform server22 communicate to establish a unique identifier for the gift order, andto communicate the order information, including contact information(i.e., a name) of the giver 14 and contact information (i.e., a name) ofthe recipient 12. The unique identifier 18 can be a unique URL (e.g.,(www.platformserver/uniqueidentifier)), a QR code or similar, or acode/phone number (e.g., “text this code to this (xxx) XXX-XXXX”). Theunique identifier can appear on the packing slip 40 and/or the shippinglabel 38.

FIG. 3 is a schematic representation of an exemplary shipping label 38according to an embodiment of the invention. The exemplary shippinglabel 38 includes a QR code 44 that encodes a unique URL as the uniqueidentifier. The exemplary shipping label 38 also includes indicia 46indicating that the package is in the system 10.

In step S4, the platform server 22 stores order information with thecorresponding unique identifier in the database 20. The platform server22 has an application programming interface (API) to receive and passthis information.

In optional step S5, the giver 14 may select, using the gift givercommunication device 24 in communication with the platform server 22,from several options to create a custom message to the recipient 12. Thecustom message may be made before shipment of the gift or while the giftis in transit. The options include video, text, voice, and picture withcaption. As noted above, the gift giver communication 24 device may be apersonal computer, a tablet computer, a smart phone, or any othercommunication device capable of communicating with the platform server22 through the communication network 32. The giver 14 can also beinformed at this point that they can help select the types of thingsthat the recipient and he/she may wish to consider buying in the future,thus allowing the merchant 34 to have more targeted and successfuloffers.

In step S6, the platform server 22 associates the custom message to theunique identifier and saves the custom message to the database 20. Itshould be noted that the giver 14 does not need to create a custommessage to the recipient for proper operation of the system and methodof the invention because a gift context is known when the giver 14 andthe recipient 12 are two different people and this is further evidencedif the addresses of each are different. Whether the giver 14 creates acustom message or not, a call to action for the recipient 12 will begenerated and printed on the packing slip 40 created by the merchant 34,enticing the recipient 12 to send a message of thanks. The message onthe packing slip 40 is optimized to enhance the motivation of therecipient 12 to accept the terms of service (TOS) (described below).This can be done by leading with a “listen to the gift giver's message”when before shipment the gift giver created a voice message, or “readthe message” when before shipment the giver created a message. Theintegration of the delivery service 36 (such as FedEx and UPS) and thedelivery service communication device 30 allows such customization ofthe call to action message on the shipping label 38. When no message iscreated before shipment, the message can be “go here to thank thegiver.”

In optional step S7, the platform server 22 determines an incentive tooffer to the recipient 12, associates the incentive with the uniqueidentifier, and saves the custom message to the database 20. Analgorithm is used to customize the incentive the recipient will receivein addition to being biased or strictly obedient to preset offersdefined by the merchant 34. In other words, the algorithm is forassessing and setting the amount of incentive required to optimizeacceptance of terms of service (TOS) by the recipient 12 without beingoverly promotional, thereby conserving as much revenue as possible. Forexample, if the recipient has already accepted the TOS (described below)in the past with previous orders; even orders placed with othermerchants, and the recipient's profile indicates they use the platformserver 22 to thank the giver 14 just to be polite and require verylittle additional incentive beyond that, then the incentive back to thegiver 14 can be lessened. Likewise, the magnitude of the offer presentedto the recipient 12 can be manipulated based upon responses toincentives presented in previous order occasions. However, the merchant34, using the merchant communication device 28, can override thealgorithm for specifically dictated promotions. If the incentive iscustomized and it is desired to communicate the incentive to therecipient, the customized incentive is also transmitted to the merchantcommunication device 28 for printing on the packing slip 40. Otherwise,if the incentive is a preset offer defined by the merchant 34 or acustomized but it is not desired to communicate the customized incentiveto the recipient, the merchant 34 can print the packing slip 40 withoutcommunicating with the platform server 22. The packing slip 40 willideally convey an inexact message about the actual incentives for thegiver 14 but instead provide a message that peaks curiosity and willboldly state by use of the giver's name a call to action for therecipient 12 to send a message of thanks.

FIG. 4 is a schematic representation of an exemplary packing slip 40including a message that peaks curiosity and boldly states by use of thegiver's name (e.g., “Bob”) a call to action for the recipient 12 to senda message of thanks, according to an embodiment of the invention. Theexemplary packing slip 40 includes a QR code 44 that can be used toencode a URL as the unique identifier. The exemplary packing slip 40also includes indicia 46 indicating that the package is in the system10. The exemplary packing slip 40 also includes indicia 48 providing aURL and code/phone number 49 (e.g., “text this code to this (xxx)XXX-XXXX”) for a recipient 12 to use to contact the platform server 22(discussed below). The code/text number 49 is the preferred method dueto its ease.

The first possible encounter for a recipient 12 with the platform server22 can be triggered by the indicia 46 (e.g., a logo) and other messagingon the shipping label 38 (see, e.g., FIG. 3). A more reliable firstencounter for the recipient 12 with the platform server 22 will betriggered by an incentive message on the packing slip 40 the merchant 34puts in a box with the gift 16 (see, e.g., FIG. 4). Ideally thisincentive message is large and bold and mentions the giver 14 by name soas to catch the attention of the recipient 12. For example the packingslip may read, “Thank (giver name) for this gift and your thanks willgive (giver name) cash back on this order at no cost to you.” Theincentive could apply to the current order (monetary discount on goodsor freight) so the giver 14 would get a credit back once the recipient12 says thank you by accepting the TOS (described below) through theplatform server 22, or the incentive could be for future orders (30% offof the next order).

In step S8, the gift 16, including the unique identifier 18, theshipping label 38, and the packing slip 40 (see FIG. 1), is transferredfrom the merchant 34 to the delivery service 36.

In step S9, the gift 16 is delivered by the delivery service 36 to therecipient 12.

In step S10, the recipient 12, using the gift recipient communicationdevice 26 contacts the platform server 22 using the unique identifier 18included with the gift 16. This step is also a request by the giftrecipient communication device 26 to send a thank you message to thegift giver communication device 24 and, if an incentive was associatedwith the unique identifier, to release and send the incentive to thegift giver 14 (via communication with the gift giver communicationdevice 24). Thus placing the trigger to release the incentive in thehands of the gift recipient 12 (i.e., the reverse of other in-boxmarketing schemes). The desire to help the gift giver 14 save money addsto the motivation that already exists to say thank you. The thank youmessage is video, text, voice, picture with caption, or any combinationthereof.

In step S11, the platform server 22 retrieves information associatedwith the unique identifier 18 from the database 20. The informationretrieved includes the contact information of the recipient 12, whichthe platform server 22 uses to determine if the recipient has acceptedthe TOS in the past with previous orders. In a preferred embodiment, therecipient 12 texts in to get the link, and by doing so the platformserver 22 automatically captures the cell phone number of the recipient12 as contact info.

If the recipient 12 has not previously accepted the TOS or at ssubsequent time from last acceptance opted out, step S12 is sending theTOS to the gift recipient communication device 26. This step includesreassurance to the recipient 12 that the contact information of therecipient 12 will not be shared with the giver 14. Then step S13 issending an indication of acceptance of the TOS from the gift recipientcommunication device 26 to the platform server 22. Acceptance of the TOScan include receiving from the gift recipient communication device 26 asign on through social media or creating a user name and a password.Additional contact information, such as an email address, and a phonenumber may also be part of acceptance of the TOS. Acceptance of the TOSalso includes approval for receiving marketing

Upon acceptance of the TOS, or, if the TOS was previously accepted, stepS14 is sending the thank you message and, if an incentive was associatedwith the unique identifier, releasing and sending the incentive to thegift giver 14 (via communication with the gift giver communicationdevice 24).

If the giver 14 created a custom message to the recipient 12, then stepS15 is delivering the custom message to the gift recipient communicationdevice 26.

FIG. 5 is an exemplary screen shot of a screen that the recipient 12 maysee on the gift recipient communication device 26 upon contacting theplatform server 22 in step S10, including a button 50 for accepting theTOS, a button 52 for playing a custom message to the recipient 12, and abutton 54 for recording a custom message to the giver 14. Also shown isa text field 56 for typing a message, a box 58 for the recipient 12 toenter their name, and a box 60 for the recipient 12 to enter their emailaddress. A phone number of the recipient 12 is automatically captured asthe recipient uses their phone to record a voice message.

Returning now to FIG. 2, step S16 is providing, by the platform server22 to the merchant communication device 28, the contact information ofthe recipient 12 for use by the merchant 34 in marketing to therecipient 12. Thus, the merchant 34 increases its customer list andlowers acquisition costs for each recipient. Advantageously, therecipient 12 is provided with a fast and easy way to say thank you, isrewarded in knowing that they helped lower the price for the giver 14,and may also receive valuable offers. The giver 14 gets to make and senda personalized message with the gift 16, gets feedback from therecipient 12, and gets valuable discounts and offers when the recipient12 thanks them.

Optionally, in step S17 the platform server 22 may offer to therecipient 12 and the recipient 12, using the gift recipientcommunication device 26, may request the platform server 22 to managethe generation and sending by mail of a physical thank you card with acustom message to the giver 14. The platform server 22 may offer therecipient 12 the opportunity to use the same video and/or text and/orvoice recording as content for the card, or the opportunity to createnew content can be offered. The voice and video options can beassociated with the thank you card by use of a QR code printed on thecard or a unique URL. Many times the shipping label 38 already includesthe address of the gift giver 14. In this instance the giver's addressbecomes known to the recipient 12 and as a result the merchant 34 mayelect to place a physical thank you card in the box for the giftrecipient 12 to use to mail back to the gift giver 14. This card can bepersonalized with the same four forms of messages (video, audio,picture, text) by the recipient 12. In other instances the physical cardcan have an encrypted address bar code to keep the address of the giftgiver 14 private.

In optional step S18, the platform server 22 may offer to the recipient12, and the recipient 12, using the gift recipient communication device26, may request the platform server 22 to manage the purchase andsending of a gift or gift card to the giver 14. On some occasions it isnot practical for the platform server 22 to present the originalmerchant 34 to the recipient 12 for buying gift items (e.g., themerchant may not have a site and the gift giver bought the item from astore in another state). For occasions such as these, favored onlinesellers would be selected to be shown to the gift recipient at thispoint.

Optional steps S17 and S18 are performed after the platform server 22has received acceptance of the TOS from the recipient 12, so as not tointerfere with the primary purpose of getting the recipient 12 to agreeto the TOS.

FIG. 6 is an exemplary screen shot of a screen that the recipient 12 maysee on the gift recipient communication device 26 where the platformserver 22 offers to the recipient 12 the options of sending by mail of aphysical thank you card or a gift.

Returning again to FIG. 2, in optional step S19, the platform server 22manages a transmission of a scanner application to the gift recipientcommunication device 26 to facilitate future communication. Once arecipient 12 tries the system 10, the various user interface screensthey encounter can have posted links to scanner application fordownload, and FAQ (frequently asked questions) to show how the scannercan make future uses of the system 10 even easier. Followinginstallation of the scanner application, the step S10 of the recipient12 contacting the platform server 22 can include the recipient 12 usingthe gift recipient communication device 24 to scan the shipping label 38or the packing slip 40 of the gift 16. If the shipping label 38 isscanned, since the shipping label 38 is on the outside of the shippingbox of the gift 16 and, therefore, public, the platform server 22 mayrequire the recipient to enter a code present on the internal packingslip 40 before the platform server 22 delivers a custom message from thegiver 14 to the gift recipient communication device 26. Alternatively,the platform server 22 may require the recipient 12 to “log in” using ausername and passcode. The platform server 22 may then compare the nameand address of the recipient 12 and an identifier of the gift recipientcommunication device 26 (e.g., a smart phone ID) to the informationassociated with the username and passcode to verify the recipient 12before delivering a custom message from the giver 14. The preferred pathis to only allow the custom message from the giver 14 to be accessedfrom information contained on the internal packing slip 40. The externalshipping label 38 is the preferred means for the gift recipientcommunication device 26 to contact the platform server 22 to requestthat a thank you message be sent to the gift giver communication device24 because this action does not pose a security challenge as the giver14 and recipient 12 cannot view to each other's contact info through theplatform server 22. The platform server 22 can always be used to justsay thanks without incentives to do so. It is noted that scanning a code(internal or external) is preferred only after the recipient 12 isalready known and has accepted the TOS. That is because the act ofscanning does not capture any contact info. The use of text or email ispreferred before the recipient is known and accepts the TOS.

It is worth noting that the platform server 22 could be used to sendincentives, from featured merchants (not necessarily limited to themerchant 34 that provided the gift 26), on any order. For instance, ifthe merchant 34 is a florist, a dried flower kit offer from a differentflorist could be associated with the order place with the merchant 34,whether the order was a gift or a self-buy order.

In a further extension of this embodiment, a pre-printed and serializedgreeting card 62 (see FIG. 1) can be personalized by the gift giver 14using the platform server 22. When the gift 16 is being ordered, themerchant 34 can offer, for an additional fee (or not if the sellingprice of the good in sufficiently high), to include the pre-printed andserialized greeting card 62 with the gift. Should the gift giver 14choose to include such a pre-printed and serialized greeting card 62,the order information communicated between the merchant communicationdevice 28 and the platform server 22 includes the serial number of thegreeting card 62 to be included with the gift 16, such that the platformserver 22 associates the custom message described in connection withstep S5 with the pre-printed and serialized greeting card 62. Theinformation on the pre-printed and serialized card then replaces thecall to action information discussed above as being included on theshipping label 38 (FIG. 3) and/or the packaging slip 40 (FIG. 40).Advantageously, the gift giver 14 can personalize the pre-printed andserialized greeting card 62 without ever physically possessing thegreeting card 62.

2. Second Embodiment Aggregator Model

FIG. 7 shows another exemplary embodiment of a system 110 for obtaininginformation and approval to market to a recipient of a gift (from agiver), the gift including a unique identifier. The system 110 includesa database 120, a platform server 122, a gift giver communication device124, and a gift recipient communication device 126. The system 110 alsoincludes a merchant communication device 128, communication devices forother merchants (collectively) 129, and an aggregator servicecommunication device 130. In this exemplary embodiment, the platformserver 122 coordinates with the aggregator service communication device130 (e.g., FedEx or an online marketplace such as sears.com) in such away that all merchants that utilize the services of the aggregator canutilize the platform server 122 without having to do costly, individualintegrations. In the examples, the merchants can “piggy back” on theexisting infrastructure for communications between the aggregatorservice communication device 130 and the platform server 122. Incentivescan be influenced by the buyer and recipient's profiles derived fromprevious purchases/recipients of goods and services from a multitude ofmerchants. The platform server 122 is consolidated to a singularinstallation/API with the aggregator service communication device 130.The aggregator service communication device 130 then incorporates thefunctionality and services of the platform server 122 in to its existingAPI, installations, and other connections with its merchants. Theaggregator model allows for rapid and immediate growth of thefunctionality and services of the platform server 122.

It is noted that these tools of the above-described embodiments can alsobe used by brick-and-mortar retailers. A code can be added to the salesreceipt (preferred embodiment). This code would essentially do the samething as the code on a packing slip sent from an internet retailer.

It is also noted that the above-described embodiments reverse themarketing appeal from box stuffers that target rewards for the giftrecipient to communications which targets a reward for the gift giverwhere the trigger for that reward is in the hands of the gift recipient.

3. Third Embodiment Sound Affections

FIG. 8 shows another exemplary embodiment of a system 210 for obtaininginformation and approval to market to a recipient 212 of a gift (from agiver) including a unique identifier 218. However, in this instance thegift is a card 216 (e.g., a greeting card, a thank you card, aninvitation, or other stationary) and the giver is a sender 214. Thesystem 210 includes a database 220, a platform server 222, a card sendercommunication device 224, and a card recipient communication device 226.The system 210 may also include a merchant communication device 228.

A communication network 232 allows communication between the platformserver 222, the card sender communication device 224, and the cardrecipient communication device 226. The communication network 232 may bethe Internet, or any other appropriate network or networks forcommunicating information between the database 220, the platform server222, and the communication devices 224, 226, 228 (i.e., computing andcommunicating machines and entities) discussed herein.

Also shown in FIG. 8 is a merchant 234. The merchant 234 is an entity,similar to the card recipient 212 and the card sender 214.

The platform server 222 is in communication with the database 220. Theplatform server 222 includes at least one processor operably connectedto memory and input/output devices (not shown). The platform server 222executes software, as discussed below. The platform server 222 mayinclude more than one physical server and may also utilize “cloudhosting” or “managed hosting” (many servers hosted by third parties).

The card sender communication device 224 is in communication with theplatform server 222 through the communication network 232. The cardsender communication device 224 may be a personal computer, a tabletcomputer, a smart phone, or any other communication device capable ofcommunicating with the platform server 222 through the communicationnetwork 232. The communication network 232 may be the Internet, or anyother appropriate network or networks for communicating informationbetween the computing and communicating machines discussed herein.

The card recipient communication device 226 is in communication with theplatform server 222 through the communication network 232. The cardrecipient communication device 226 may also be a personal computer, atablet computer, a smart phone, or any other communication devicecapable of communicating with the platform server 222 through thecommunication network 232.

The merchant communication device 228 of this exemplary embodiment maybe a computer server or the like that hosts a website through which themerchant 234 offers and sells cards (i.e., an online merchant), or maybe a personal computer, a tablet computer, a smart phone, or any othercommunication device with which a brick-and-mortar retailer cancommunicate with the platform server 222 through the communicationnetwork 232. Examples of online merchants of this exemplary embodimentinclude retailers such as Amazon.com and 1-800-Flowers.

FIG. 9 is a call flow diagram showing exemplary interaction between thevarious computing and communicating machines and entities describedherein, which are labeled in accordance with the labels shown in FIG. 8and described in connection therewith.

In step S201, the card sender 214 purchases the card 216 from themerchant 234. The merchant 234 may be a brick-and-mortar store or may bean online retailer (and may even be the operator of the platform server222). The unique identifier 218 identifies the merchant 234 from whomthe card 216 was purchased, for credit allocation and other purposes. Asmentioned above, the card 216 can be a greeting card, a thank you card,an invitation, or other stationery. The term “other stationary” includesan insert to a traditional greeting card or the like, which cantransform any ordinary card or anything mailed into a vehicle fordelivering custom messages. Each card 216 includes information (i.e., is“serialized”) for the card sender 214 to access the platform server 222to create a custom message to the card recipient 212, to associate thecustom message with the unique identifier 218, and for the cardrecipient 212 to access the platform server 222 to retrieve the custommessage. The information allows the platform server 222 to know if aparty is a card sender 214 or a card recipient 212. For example, thecard 216 includes, for the card recipient 212 to access the platformserver 222 via the card recipient communication device 226, a uniquerecipient URL (e.g., (www.platformserver/recipientuniqueidentifier)) ora unique recipient code/phone number (e.g., “text this code to this(XXX) XXX-XXXX”), or a unique recipient code for use with a non-uniqueURL or a non-unique code/phone number.

A card 216 purchased at a brick-and-mortar store may include, for thecard sender 214 to access the platform server 222 via the card sendercommunication device 224, a unique sender URL (e.g.,(www.platformserver/senderuniqueidentifier)) or a unique sendercode/phone number (e.g., “text this code to this (XXX) XXX-XXXX”), or aunique sender code for use with a non-unique URL or a non-uniquecode/phone number. An insert may include a sender code good for acertain number of uses where the platform server provides a uniquerecipient code that the card sender 214 writes on each respective card216 so each respective card recipient 212 can retrieve the custommessage.

When the merchant 234 is an online retailer, the custom message(described below) will automatically be associated with the uniqueidentifier 218. The online retailer can also provide the card sender 214with various options for the card 216, such as font options, customtemplates for different occasions, uploading and cropping images/photos,editing captions, custom messages, and spell checking. The onlineretailer can also provide the card sender 214 with the option of mailingthe card directly or sending the card 216 to the card sender 214 formailing.

In step S202, the card sender 214 provides sender contact informationand selects, using the card sender communication device 224 incommunication with the platform server 222, from several options tocreate a custom message to the card recipient 212. The platform server222 does not share the sender contact information with the cardrecipient 212. The options include video, text, voice, or picture withcaption. The card sender communication device 224 may be a personalcomputer, a tablet computer, a smart phone, or any other communicationdevice capable of communicating with the platform server 222 through thecommunication network 232. The platform server 222 can allow the cardsender 214 to password protect the custom message, and provide thepassword to the card recipient 212 by their own means. Included in stepS202 is the card sender 214 accepting, using the card sendercommunication device, a terms of service (“TOS”) presented by theplatform server 222, including approval for receiving marketing from themerchant 234 or another party.

In step S203, the platform server 222 associates the sender contactinformation and the custom message to the unique identifier and savesthe sender contact information and the custom message to the database220.

In step S204, the card 216 is mailed to the card recipient 212 by eitherthe card sender 214 or the merchant 234.

In step S205, after receiving the card 216, the card recipient 212,using the card recipient communication device 226 and the uniqueinformation, contacts the platform server 222. If the card recipient 212has not previously accepted a TOS, step S206 is sending the TOS to thecard recipient communication device 226. This step includes reassuranceto the card recipient 212 that the contact information of the recipient212 will not be shared with the card sender 214. Then step S207 issending an indication of acceptance of the TOS from the card recipientcommunication device 226 to the platform server 222. Acceptance of theTOS includes receiving from the card recipient communication device 226a sign on through social media or creating a user name and a password.Additional contact information, such as an email address, and a phonenumber may also be part of acceptance of the TOS. Acceptance of the TOSalso includes approval for receiving marketing from the merchant 234 oranother party.

Upon acceptance of the TOS, or, if the TOS was previously accepted, stepS208 is the platform server 222 retrieving the custom message from thedatabase 220, and step S209 is delivering the custom message to the giftrecipient communication device 226.

In step S210, the card recipient 212 selects, using the card recipientcommunication device 226 in communication with the platform server 222,from several options to create a custom reply message to the card sender214. The options include video, text, voice, or picture with caption.The platform server 222 does not share the card recipient contactinformation with the card sender 214. The platform server 222 can allowthe card recipient 212 to password protect the custom reply message, andprovide the password to the card sender 214 by their own means. In theevent that the card 216 is an invitation, the custom reply message is areply to the invitation (i.e., an RSVP). The invitation can includequestions, and the reply can include answers to the questions, and theplatform server 222 can create a real time spreadsheet sortable by whois confirmed (plus guests), who is not coming, and who has notresponded, as well as who is bringing what.

In step S211, the platform server 222 communicates the custom replymessage to the card sender communication device 224.

After a predetermined number of free views (e.g., one or two) to thecard recipient 212 and the card sender 214, the platform server 222 canlock out future messages until each message maker provides a credit cardso the operator of the platform server 222 can bill for each messagebeyond that. Conversely they can elect free use and be exposed to adsthat allow monetization

Advantageously, after the first use of cards purchased in a brick andmortar store, or their first encounter with the platform server 222online, the users can be offered to create new, update, edit and repeatcards on an anniversary of their creation. They can also choosepaperless for contacts that the platform server 222 has collected orthat they added. They can also choose that the operator of the platformserver 222 would send the physical card for them though the sender 214never possessed them, they are still very personalized with their words,voice and images.

In packages of cards, each package of cards has an instruction sheet andthe sheet includes a unique code for that package of cards. Once thatcode is entered by the first user, they are asked to provide their emailaddress. Only that email address is given rights to make/use the cardsin that deck. If another user somehow guesses at a code, they would needto know the exact email address for that code to continue. Further, eachcard is preprinted with a letter followed by two numbers and a blankfollowing that. The two preprinted numbers on each card represent therange of that card pack. A six pack of cards would be preprinted with 00through 05. As recipients key in the code the platform server tracks thecard's usage and stops the card pack purchaser from creating newmessages once all six cards have been received/used by the recipients.The preprinted letter on each card indicates the type of the card (thankyou, Christmas, birthday; etc.). If a recipient receives a card withjust the preprinted letter followed by two numbers, they will think thatis the complete code and enter it at the platform server. The platformserver recognizes the card sender's mistake and the intended occasionand plays a prerecorded, non-personalized message germane to the cardoccasion. Further, each card can only be accessed a predetermined numberof times (e.g., two) and then the recipient is forced to downloaded itlocally to their device, allowing them to replay it without additionalcost to the platform server. Lastly, the submit button will only becomeactive when a valid code is entered.

4. Fourth Embodiment Retentage

FIG. 10 shows an exemplary embodiment of a system 310 for obtaininginformation and approval to market to a purchaser (i.e., a customer 314)of a package 316 including a code 218 printed on a card or otherdocument included with the package. The system 310 includes a database320, a platform server 322, a customer communication device 324, and amerchant communication device 328.

A communication network 332 allows communication between the platformserver 322, the customer communication device 324, and the merchantcommunication device 328. The communication network 332 may be theInternet, or any other appropriate network or networks for communicatinginformation between the database 320, the platform server 322, and thecommunication devices 324, 328 (i.e., computing and communicatingmachines and entities) discussed herein.

Also shown in FIG. 10 is a merchant 334. The merchant 334 is an entity,similar to the customer 314.

The platform server 333 is in communication with the database 320. Theplatform server 322 includes at least one processor operably connectedto memory and input/output devices (not shown). The platform server 322executes software, as discussed below. The platform server 322 mayinclude more than one physical server and may also utilize “cloudhosting” or “managed hosting” (many servers hosted by third parties).

FIG. 11 is a chart showing exemplary interaction between the variouscomputing and communicating machines and entities described herein,which are labeled in accordance with the labels shown in FIG. 10 anddescribed in connection therewith.

In step S301, the customer 314 places an order with the merchant 334 forthe self-buy package 16. For example, the step could be the customer 314ordering a package using a web site (i.e., an online merchant) or at abrick-and-mortar store. FIG. 11 shows the customer 314 placing the orderusing the customer communication device 324 in communication with themerchant communication device 328. As used herein, the customercommunication device 324 could include a combination of communicationdevices (e.g., personal computer, a tablet computer, a smart phone, orany other communication device capable of communicating with theplatform server 22 through the communication network 32), such that thecustomer 314 could place an order using one device (e.g., a computer)and could receive a message (discussed below) from the merchant 334using another device (e.g., a smart phone).

In step S302, the self-buy package 316 is send from the merchant 334 tothe customer along with an insert or other document including a code318, such as a URL and/or a code/phone number 49 (e.g., “text this codeto this (xxx) XXX-XXXX”) for the customer 314 to use to contact theplatform server 322 (discussed below). The code/text number is thepreferred method due to its ease. The code 318 can be a unique code forthe self-buy package, or it can be a general code for the merchant 334.A unique code allows the merchant 334 to address the customer 314 byname and their shopping habits captured, since the unique code would belinked to a unique order number at time of checkout. The shopping habitswill be useful for the merchant 334 so that it can select more targetedpromotions to the customer 314.

In step S303, the customer 314, using the customer communication device324, contacts the platform server 322 using the code 318 included withthe self-buy package 316.

In step S304, the platform server 322 retrieves information associatedwith the customer 314 from the database 20 to determine if the customer314 has accepted terms of service (TOS) previously.

In step S305, the platform server 322 sends the customer communicationdevice 324 a link to a URL containing an incentive (e.g., offers andcontent), and, if not previously accepted, the TOS.

Engagement starts with a brief written message from the merchant 334.The message calls out the customer 314 by name. The personalized messageis typed including the name of customer for online retailer but in thecase of brick and mortar customer paying by cash the retailer's employeewould ask the name of consumer and write it into a blank on an otherwisepreprinted card. This intro message will “know” if this is theconsumer's first or return visit (welcome back) to this page on behalfof the client—a nice touch. The platform server 322/database 320confirms if this number/person is returning to this merchant 334 (couldbe a repeat channel user but arriving at this merchant 334 via theplatform server for the first time. After this intro the merchant 334can provide additional content via audio, video or more text. Thiscontent can be coupons and loyalty programs, etc. The platform server322 asks the customer 314 for how they should get that content (email ortext) and get TOS approval. The page the customer 314 is brought toshould contain content that is engaging and that motivates the customer314 to accept TOS via promotions; etc. The page should also allowresponses by the customer 314 by selecting between predefined categoriesthat the merchant 334 may select from including: Register your product;contact CS, claim a coupon or gift, buy a voucher. The merchant 334 canadd its own promotion which may and should be linked to the code 318 tomanage sign in by social media.

The fact that no advanced knowledge of the cell phone or email is neededto work also makes possible new marketing methods for the merchant 334(either on and offline) during non-gift, self-buy purchases. It canreplace the expensive, yet low performing box stuffers withindividualized offers. The message is triggered by the code 318, used bythe customer 314, to “opt in” for offers immediately brought to them bytext or email. As the customer 314 buys more thanks to these specialpromotions (greater discounts made possible by the removing of printedmaterials in every box), the merchant 334 gains insight into the buyinghabits of the customer 314 and individually customizes and optimizes(i.e., personalizes) the offers for the customer 314.

4. Additional Embodiments

One of ordinary skill in the art will recognize that additionalembodiments are possible without departing from the teachings of theinvention. This detailed description, and particularly the specificdetails of the exemplary embodiments disclosed, is given primarily forclearness of understanding and no unnecessary limitations are to beunderstood therefrom, for modifications will become evident to thoseskilled in the art upon reading this disclosure and may be made withoutdeparting from the spirit or scope of the claimed invention.

What is claimed is:
 1. A system for obtaining information and approvalto market to a recipient of a gift, the system comprising: a database;and a platform server in communication with the database, the platformserver including a processor operably connected to memory, andinput/output devices; the processor executing software instructionsstored in the memory for causing the platform server to: store in thedatabase a unique identifier and order information including contactinformation of a giver and contact information of the recipient; andsend a thank you message to a gift giver communication device inresponse to receiving a request from a gift recipient communicationdevice, verification from the gift recipient communication device usingthe unique identifier, and approval from the gift recipientcommunication device for receiving marketing from a merchant.
 2. Thesystem of claim 1, wherein the platform server associates a custommessage to the recipient with the unique identifier in response toreceiving a selection from the gift giver communication device of anoption to create the custom message, and delivers the custom message tothe gift recipient communication device in response to the verification.3. The system of claim 1, wherein the gift includes an incentive for therecipient to thank the giver, and wherein the platform server associatesthe incentive with the unique identifier, and releases and sends theincentive to the giver with the thank you message, so that release ofthe incentive is controlled by the recipient.
 4. The system of claim 1,wherein the platform server manages generation of a physical thank youcard with a custom message to be sent by mail to the giver in responseto a request from the gift recipient communication device.
 5. The systemof claim 1, wherein the platform server manages purchase and sending ofa gift card by the recipient to the giver in response to a request fromthe gift recipient communication device.
 6. The system of claim 1,wherein verification from the gift recipient communication device usingthe unique identifier utilizes a URL hosted by the platform server. 7.The system of claim 1, wherein the unique identifier is included on aninternal packing slip of the gift.
 8. The system of claim 1, wherein theunique identifier is included on a shipping label of the gift.
 9. Amethod for obtaining information and approval to market to a recipientof a gift, the method comprising: storing in a database, by a platformserver, a unique identifier, order information, contact information of agiver, and contact information of the recipient; and sending, by theplatform server, a thank you message to a gift giver communicationdevice in response to receiving a request from a gift recipientcommunication device, verification from the gift recipient communicationdevice using the unique identifier, and approval from the gift recipientcommunication device for receiving marketing from a merchant.
 10. Themethod of claim 9, further comprising associating, by the platformserver, a custom message to the recipient with the unique identifier inresponse to receiving a selection from the gift giver communicationdevice of an option to create the custom message, and delivering thecustom message to the gift recipient communication device in response tothe verification.
 11. The method of claim 10, further comprisingassociating, by the platform server, the custom message with the uniqueidentifier before shipment of the gift.
 12. The method of claim 10,further comprising associating, by the platform server, the custommessage with the unique identifier during transit of the gift.
 13. Themethod of claim 9, further comprising sending, by the platform server, areassurance message to the gift recipient communication device thatcontact information of the recipient will not be shared with the giver,and receiving acceptance of terms of service from the gift recipientcommunication device before sending the thank you message.
 14. Themethod of claim 13, wherein acceptance of the terms of service includesreceiving from the gift recipient communication device a sign on throughsocial media or creating a user name and password.
 15. The method ofclaim 9, further comprising managing, by the platform server, generationof a physical thank you card with a custom message to be sent by mail tothe giver in response to a request from the gift recipient communicationdevice.
 16. The method of claim 9, further comprising managing, by theplatform server, purchase and sending of a gift card by the recipient tothe giver in response to a request from the gift recipient communicationdevice.
 17. A system for obtaining information and approval to market toa recipient of a card, the system comprising: a database; and a platformserver in communication with the database, the platform server includinga processor operably connected to memory, and input/output devices; theprocessor executing software instructions stored in the memory forcausing the platform server to: store in the database a uniqueidentifier, contact information of a card sender, and a custom messageto the recipient from a card sender communication device; and send thecustom message to a card recipient communication device in response toreceiving verification from the card recipient communication deviceusing the unique identifier, and approval from the card recipientcommunication device for receiving marketing from a merchant.
 18. Thesystem of claim 17, wherein the platform server further sends a customreply to the card sender communication device in response to receivingthe custom reply from the card recipient communication device.
 19. Thesystem of claim 18, wherein the card is an invitation, and wherein thecustom reply is a reply to the invitation.
 20. The system of claim 19,wherein the invitation includes questions, and wherein the custom replyincludes answers to the questions.
 21. The system of claim 19, whereinthe platform server creates a spreadsheet sortable by who is confirmed,who is not coming, and who has not responded.
 22. A method for obtaininginformation and approval to market to a recipient of a card, the methodcomprising: storing in a database, by a platform server, a uniqueidentifier, contact information of a card sender, and a custom messageto the recipient from a card sender communication device; and sending,by the platform server, the custom message to a card recipientcommunication device in response to receiving verification from the cardrecipient communication device using the unique identifier, and approvalfrom the card recipient communication device for receiving marketingfrom a merchant.
 23. The method of claim 22, further comprising sending,by the platform server, a reassurance message to the card recipientcommunication device that contact information of the card recipient willnot be shared with the card sender, and receiving acceptance of terms ofservice from the card recipient communication device before sending thecustom message.
 24. The method of claim 23, wherein acceptance of theterms of service includes receiving from the card recipientcommunication device a sign on through social media or creating a username and password.
 25. A system for obtaining information and approvalto market to a customer receiving a package, the system comprising: adatabase; and a platform server in communication with the database, theplatform server including a processor operably connected to memory, andinput/output devices; the processor executing software instructionsstored in the memory for causing the platform server to: store in thedatabase an identifier and a link to a URL containing an incentive froma merchant; and send the link to a customer communication device inresponse to receiving verification from the customer communicationdevice using the identifier, and approval from the customercommunication device for receiving marketing from the merchant.
 26. Thesystem of claim 25, wherein the identifier is a unique identifier,wherein identification of the customer is associated with the uniqueidentifier in the database, and wherein the incentive from the merchantis personalized for the customer.
 27. A method for obtaining informationand approval to market to a customer receiving a package, the methodcomprising: storing in a database, by a platform server, an identifierand a link to a URL containing an incentive from a merchant; andsending, by the platform server, the link to a customer communicationdevice in response to receiving verification from the customercommunication device using the identifier, and approval from thecustomer communication device for receiving marketing from the merchant.28. The method of claim 27, wherein the identifier is a uniqueidentifier, wherein identification of the customer is associated withthe unique identifier in the database, the method further comprisingpersonalizing the incentive from the merchant for the customer.